Meet An Atheist

The thoughts and rants of a proud member of one of the worlds most maligned and slandered groups.

Wednesday, November 30, 2005

I Work in Mysterious Ways

I am a photographer. I was supposed to get some overdue darkroom work completed yesterday, but instead spent the afternoon catching up on my online blog reading. When my wife got in last night, I was relaxing on the couch channel surfing through all the horrible television choices. She asked if I had gotten a lot of work done. I told her that I did not get any work done whatsoever. She asked why. I thought about it and explained,

I work in mysterious ways.

She took the remote control from me and walked away.

How is it that this excuse works so easily for 'God', but not for the rest of us?

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Tuesday, November 29, 2005

James Dobson's Balls Curing Homosexuality!

I was so busy eating turkey and celebrating gluttony that I missed this jewel last week. A story such as this one makes one question whether anyone at Focus on Someone Else's Family has any sense of irony at all.

Far Right Group to Use Macy's Parade to Spread Ant-Gay Message

The balloons at Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade won't be the only things filled with hot air this week in New York.

Antigay Colorado group Focus on the Family said Tuesday that its members plan to distribute 5,000 "stress balls" along the parade route to promote a Web site it operates that claims that homosexuality is a disorder that can be cured through faith. Visitors to the site, TroubledWith.com, who think they might be gay or lesbian are told, "You're not simply 'wired that way.'" In another section, visitors are told that being gay or lesbian can be prevented, because "like other adult problems, homosexuality begins at home. Mom and Dad are key players." Also to blame are porn, the media, and "seduction by peers."

The Web site also carries faith-based advice on topics ranging from eating disorders to depression.

Focus on the Family plans to run 30-second commercials in the New York market during The Oprah Winfrey Show and Dr. Phil. The group is already running ads on an electronic billboard in Times Square.

The conservative ministry appears to be in a desperate search for new, younger followers to tune in to the radio show by Focus founder James Dobson. Web site creator Steve Watters told the Associated Press that the number of listeners has not been growing in recent years and that most people who call for help are in their late 40s. (Advocate.com)

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Monday, November 28, 2005

Because God Loves Us The Most

Doesn't the author of the book discussed in the article below understand that 'God' has chosen America to right all of the wrongs in the world (except for the ones in the USA).

Author incurs U.S. backlash with wake-up call book

British journalist and think-tank fellow Anatol Lieven wrote his book "America Right or Wrong" as a wake-up call for the United States to curb its nationalism or face the consequences.

For his trouble, Lieven received hate mail, was derided on Internet blogs and, in possibly the cruelest cut of all, was labeled "anti-American" in a review in the New York Times.

"It was actively slanderous," he fumed almost a year later.

But perhaps not all that surprising.

"While America keeps a splendid and welcoming house, it also keeps a family of demons in the cellar," he writes in the book, published in 2004 and just re-issued in paperback.

"Usually kept under certain restraints, these demons were released by 9/11," he adds, seeing the attacks on Washington and New York in September 2001, as the trigger that unleashed the nationalist, messianic "dark side" of America.

The Republican Party of President George W. Bush, who has proclaimed the right of the United States to intervene around the world for preventive war and to foster democracy, should rename itself the "American Nationalist Party," Lieven writes.

"That was what you might call a 'minor provocation'," he laughed during a recent interview in London.

Lieven, 45, does not hate America. He lives in Washington where he is senior research fellow at the New America Foundation. However, he sees serious problems afflicting the world's only superpower.

"At the moment America is just overextended and riding for a fall," he told Reuters.

"It doesn't have the resources, the financial resources, and it can't raise enough men to fulfill its present goals of basically dominating everywhere."

KICKING DOWN THE HILL

How did America, which pushed communism over the brink to extinction and spearheaded the globalization that raised world wealth to record levels, get in the position where, as Lieven sees it, it is "kicking to pieces the hill of which it is king?"

To explain, Lieven goes back to colonial times, the frontier era, and most particularly to America's early 19th-century President Andrew Jackson, whom Lieven says did much to nurture nationalism, and a "messianic" belief America can do no wrong.

Jackson personified a new "folk law" of America, taking precedence over written law, Lieven writes. Along with it came deep suspicion of America's East Coast, its intellectuals and "Yankee" lawyers -- a regional hostility Lieven says persists to this day in the South and in Texas, Bush's home state.

"This picture is a tremendously important part of the self-image of George W. Bush, of Dick Cheney (from Wyoming, another frontier state) and indeed of their administration as a whole, and it has shaped that administration's aggressiveness in international affairs," Lieven writes.

The neo-conservatives in the Bush administration embraced the concept of preventive war to promote America's influence in the world, Lieven says. All it needed was the trigger al Qaeda provided.

Lieven, who has written about the Baltics and Chechnya, could be accused -- and has been -- of being a card-carrying "old worlder" who fails to understand the nuances of American politics and civilization that have helped the country thrive for more than two centuries.

He counters his critics by in effect quoting their words back at them, citing major American historians and political figures, such as the late Democratic Sen. J. William Fulbright, an outspoken foe of the Vietnam war three decades ago.

"He (Fulbright) sets out categorically this argument against a messianic belief that America can tell other nations what to do, even if they don't agree, because we (the United States) have the best system in the world and American power was inevitably good.

"It's in Fulbright; it's not something Anatol Lieven made up," the author said.

Lieven hasn't finished with America. For a book on American strategy, he is teaming up with a research fellow at the conservative Heritage Foundation, John Hulsman, whom Lieven describes as "the last of the Eisenhower Republicans."

"I am quite convinced that if (U.S. President Dwight) Eisenhower were to come back today he would have written a review in support of my book," Lieven joked.

"Eisenhower argued again and again for calm, for restraint, for understanding your enemy, for distinguishing between different kinds of enemies and for not uniting enemies against you," he said of the former general who served as president in the 1950s.

"What he would have made of the 'neo-cons', God alone knows."

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Tuesday, November 22, 2005

Christian Misfits

This post is following the line of thought from yesterday concerning 'real Christians'.

One of the many things that I have noticed since I began this blog, is that there seems to be individuals who are stuck in the wrong 'brand' of Christianity. I have conversed with liberal Christians who are in the Southern Baptist denomination and Agnostics who are Methodists. These individuals have views that are completely outside of the tenants of their particular denomination (a Southern Baptist who doesn't think homosexuality is an abomination for instance). Often a contributor will be forced to admit that their fellow members of x denomination are not following the teachings of Christ, while the leaders of x denomination clearly would not consider the views of the contributor as doing the same.

My question is this: Why would you stay in a denomination that you constantly have to apologize for and that does not represent your personal view or your interpretation of the Bible or your 'God'? Is the 'born into' aspect so important? Is it social pressure? Is change so frightening to you?

This confuses me, as an atheist, given the thousands of 'brands' of Christianity that are available in this country (US). Surely liberal and moderate Christians can find a better fit than the Baptist (and yes, I am picking on Baptists).

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Monday, November 21, 2005

True Christians

Could someone explain to me who the real Christians are? I have alternately been informed on this blog that Pat Robertson and Jerry Falwell are not 'true Christians', that people who use Christianity as a 'front to be hateful' are not 'true Christians', that people who 'water down' the Bible are not true Christians and that people who don't follow the teachings of Christ are not 'true Christians'.

I have news for all of you Christians. NONE of you are 'true Christians'.

None of you follow the teachings of Christ. None of you take the Bible at what it says. All of you 'water down' the Bible. All of you pick and choose the parts of the 'Word of God' that you choose to follow and discard the rest. All of you use Christianity as a 'front' to one degree or another; either to persecute those you fear or do not understand, or to sell music and become 'almost famous', or to support your political views, or to use as an excuse to not have to think and use your own reason.

If Pat Robertson and Jerry Falwell aren't 'true Christians', then why are they the most well known and quoted Christians on this planet? Why do they have multi-million dollar empires and entire broadcasting networks? Why do they hold such sway in the Republican Party? Why do they have millions of loyal followers? None of these followers, no Republicans are 'true Christians'? Is George Bush not a 'true Christian'? He certainly does not follow the more famous of Jesus' teachings.

I am more than a little sick from hearing liberal or moderate Christians declare that this or that person is not a 'real Christian'. Maybe it is YOU who is not the 'real Christian'. Perhaps a liberal or moderate caring human being does not belong in the Christian faith. Did you ever consider that? It seems to me that someone who doesn't hate others because of who they are (gay, lesbian, atheists), who doesn't use religion as a political or financial tool to gain power or fame, who realizes that the Bible is full of errors and unbelievable brutality which cannot be condoned or simply ignored; that this person has more in common with atheists than with most Christians.

I will have more to say on this tomorrow.

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Sunday, November 20, 2005

An Atheist Sunday

Ever wonder what an atheist does on Sunday?

Today my wife and I went to the Freedom From Religion Foundation chapter meeting in Alabama with two friends and fellow atheists. This was the first time we attended a meeting and we are not yet members. The meeting was held at the grounds of the Lake Hypatia compound, a beautiful spot in the hills near Talladega, Alabama.

The Alabama chapter of FFRA, also known as Alabama Freethought Association, is very active and vibrant and have been involved in some landmark church/state battles including the Roy Moore Ten Commandments monument battle at the Alabama Supreme Court. There were several speakers scheduled for this event, George Eighmey and Marsha Temple of Compassion and Choices and Darrell Lambert, the Eagle Scout who was thrown out of the Boy Scouts of America for being an atheist.

I must admit that I was a bit worried that I might find an organized meeting of atheists too much like my old days in church, but my fears were misplaced. The atmosphere was so friendly and relaxed that I immediately felt at home. The members of the AFA were so welcoming and open, I honestly can say that I never felt so at home or welcomed in a church. We all shared a meal and wonderful intelligent conversation and then went into the roomy main hall of the compound for the speakers.

Darrell graciously gave his speaking time to the other speakers which allowed for ample time to discuss the difficult subject of end of life choices with Mr Eighmey and Ms Temple. Mr Eighmey (pronounced Amy) is a former member of the U.S. House of Representatives from Oregon and was the leader in the Oregon medical marijuana amendment and the Oregon right to die amendment. The discussion was very informative and surprisingly uplifting. Both of these speakers are great ambassadors for their cause.

We plan to join the FFRF when we attend the next meeting in November and we look forward to hearing Darrell's story of the discrimination that is alive and well in the BSA firsthand.

To close out a wonderful atheist Sunday, I am about to watch the second part of 'Virgin Queen' on Masterpiece Theatre (PBS). I guess I am one of those boring intellectual Liberals.

Saturday, November 19, 2005

Bush and Church - State

If you have a spare 3 minutes, watch this great flash video.

Seperation of Church and State

Friday, November 18, 2005

Funny Fridays

I am going to begin a tradition of posting something that is funny, ironic or just plain stupid on Fridays in the hopes of lightening my own mood and perhaps the mood of those who are kind enough to regularly read my views. Be forwarned that my sense of humor is not elitist and I find a broad range of things funny, some which may offend.


This week, it is an image that I picked up some time ago at Yahoo News.


Just out of interest, please let me know if this made you laugh. Perhaps it's just me and I really am just a sick bastard. Have a nice weekend everyone!

Thursday, November 17, 2005

Execution of Homosexuals - How Long Do We Have?

Since the election of a right-wing religious fundamentalist president in Iran, things in that country seem to be going from bad to worse - at least for moderates and liberals who happen to live there. Reading this article (below) today about reported executions of homosexuals made me wonder how different things may become in this country if the 'back to the Bible' right-wing religious fundamentalist have their way. If biblical law is to trump secular law, then wouldn't homosexuals be executed under such a regime?

From an atheist's perspective, right-wing religious fundaMentalism is right-wing religious funaMentalism regardless of what imaginary deity you are worshiping. Thanks to Bush's wars in Iraq, how long do we have before the fundaMentalist there have completely wiped any secular and humanist based laws from the books? Stories like this should be a wake up call for all atheists, liberals and even religious moderates of the dangers of mixing extreme religious tenants with politics.


GAY RIGHTS WATCHDOG CALLS FOR IRAN INQUIRY

SUMMARY: Reports of more executions of gay men in Iran prompted a call for the United Nations to investigate and hold Iran accountable for possible human rights violations.

Reports of more executions of gay men in Iran prompted an international gay rights group to renew its call for the United Nations to investigate and hold Iran accountable for possible human rights violations.

The International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission (IGLHRC) made the appeal on Wednesday, following reports that two young men were publicly hanged on Sunday on charges of homosexuality.

Earlier in the month another young man was hanged in a town square in northern Iran, according to the National Council of Resistance of Iran.

"We are alarmed at these latest hangings and call for an immediate investigation by the U.N. and national human rights monitors," said Paula Ettelbrick, executive director of the IGLHRC. "It's clear that a pattern is emerging in which young men are executed as couples and that the crimes they allegedly committed always involve some form of sexual assault of another male."

The "pattern" came to light during the summer, when the executions of two Iranian teens made headlines around the world.

"When the first reported executions came to our attention in July, it was nearly impossible to determine whether the two men were executed because of their sexual orientation," Ettelbrick said. But she added that the circumstances surrounding subsequent hangings demand "a response not just from the global LGBT community but from all human rights advocates."

IGLHRC said it has documented "specific conditions in Iran involving clear violations of human rights law."

In September the Persian Gays & Lesbians Organization (PGLO) decried the treatment of homosexuals in Iran, saying they are "usually subjected to extreme oppression and sometimes they are killed," adding that "only a small fraction of this violent homophobia comes to light."

In its Wednesday announcement, IGLHRC said it is working with other LGBT and human rights groups to seek details on the executions and demand that Iran "honor its commitments under international law to suspend use of the death penalty."


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Alito, True Believers and Roe v. Wade

Is there something that I am missing in the Bush Supreme Court nominations? It seems obvious to me that Bush is not about to nominate anyone who is not all but certain to lead an effort to overturn Roe v. Wade. Doesn't that go without saying? I am personally convinced that the rumors of Bush informing his Christian Right wing nut allies of Harriet Miers position on abortion and intent to overturn Roe V. Wade are true. It simply stands to reason. Roe v. Wade is the glue that holds a large part of the Christian wackos (to use a Republican fund raiser's words) together and Bush is, of course, going to reward them with nominees to the Supreme Court who will do their bidding.

I also see no reason to believe the assurances that the latest nominee, Judge Alito, is giving about respecting precedent. This guy is a true believer and a Republican. Why would we believe anything that comes out of his mouth? No group on earth lies with more impunity and more predictably than believers and Republicans. They are on a mission from 'God' and Alito would certainly be forgiven if he told a few lies for the benefit of the cause, particularly if the lies led to an end to the 'evil of abortion'. Alito could say anything now, and once he is in, he could simply do the opposite. I hate to say it, but I believe that within a year of his appointment, I will be saying 'I told you so'.


This linked article hardly makes me feel any less apprehensive about his almost certain confirmation to the court.









Wednesday, November 16, 2005

Top 10 Reasons To Be An Atheist

Here is my personal top 10 list of reasons to be an atheist. Most of the items in this list could be categorized as 'top 10 reasons not to be a Christian', but you could easily substitute other religious beliefs as well. I live in America, so of course Christianity would be my natural target for comparison.


  • 10. No reason to listen to Christian contemporary music. Boy, does it suck!
  • 9. Free to enjoy real life and not worry about an imaginary afterlife. We atheist look forward to a bright future for mankind and not to the destruction of the world in holy wars or Armageddon.
  • 8. Atheists can sleep-in on Sundays. Of course, we realize that most self-proclaimed Christians also do this, but we don't have any guilt over it.
  • 7. No Bible (or other holy book). We atheists don't have to spend an inordinate amount of time defending ridiculous ideas, contradictions and atrocities from 2 thousand year old books.
  • 6. Guilt Free Mocking of Pope and other religious nuts. Religion has given the atheist a plethora of wonderful characters to deride and mock at will such as Pat Robertson, the Nazi-youth Pope and Fred Phelps.
  • 5. SEX! Atheists do not feel obligated to be ashamed of our natural human instincts and biology. We can fully explore our sexual selves without any inappropriate guilt imposed by some fisherman or religious nut 2 thousand years ago (or any other author of religious texts).
  • 4. No Rejection of Science and our own intellect. Atheists do not have to ignore scientific evidence which demonstrates the falsehoods of religious dogma. We are free to explore our intellect without any 'blind spots' imposed by faith. I suppose this is why the average atheist is smarter than the average believer.
  • 3. Atheists are in Great Company. Atheists and agnostics have always been leaders in the advancement of mankind from primitive thinking to an enlightened view. Here is a great list of famous atheists. Even if we (atheists) are wrong, think of how much fun Hell is going to be! I am sure that Mark Twain has swindled Beelzebub from power and Einstein and Thomas Edison have probably worked out the whole Hellfire problem to achieve a climate not unlike St Petersburg, Florida.
  • 2. No Sky Daddy. Is there anything creepier than the idea of a great 'Sky Daddy' looking down at you at every moment? Or even worse, your dead relatives peeking in on your life at inopportune moments. We atheists take responsibility for our own actions and answer to our fellow man, not to some Santa for adults.
  • 1. No Christians after the Rapture! This is assuming that they are right, which is completely unlikely. But even so, could an atheist imagine a better world than one in which all the 'true believers' were suddenly whisked away to free the world of religious division and hatred and allow mankind to put our effort into improving the real world and this life for a change!

If you plan to post your top 10 reasons against atheism or in favor of religion, do it on your own blog and don't post it here.

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Monday, November 14, 2005

Too Good Not To Post

I know that this article is getting a lot of attention on left-leaning and atheist blogs, but it is too good for me to ignore. Forgive my lack of original content for today.

The entire article at Salon.com

Consider one memo highlighted in a Capitol Hill hearing Wednesday that Scanlon, a former aide to Rep. Tom DeLay, R-Tx., sent the Coushatta Tribe of Louisiana to describe his strategy for protecting the tribe's gambling business. In plain terms, Scanlon confessed the source code of recent Republican electoral victories: target religious conservatives, distract everyone else, and then railroad through complex initiatives.

"The wackos get their information through the Christian right, Christian radio, mail, the internet and telephone trees," Scanlon wrote in the memo, which was read into the public record at a hearing of the Senate Indian Affairs Committee. "Simply put, we want to bring out the wackos to vote against something and make sure the rest of the public lets the whole thing slip past them."


Sunday, November 13, 2005

Not Off Topic

A penguin is out for a drive in his car when the engine begins to make a loud noise. He pulls into a garage and asks the mechanic to take a look under the hood while he walks (waddles) across the road to an ice cream parlor.

The penguin enters the parlor and orders a couple of large scoops of vanilla ice cream. Penguins prefer vanilla ice cream. Having no way to hold the ice cream cup or spoon (flippers), the penguin makes quite a mess of himself trying to eat the ice cream, getting large amounts all over his face and beak.

A few minutes later, the mechanic walks in, looks at the penguin and says,

"Looks like you've blown a seal."

"Nah, that's just some ice cream", replies the penguin.






The penguin was an atheist.

The end.

Friday, November 11, 2005

Still Laughing At Kansas

You almost have to feel sorry for them ........ nah!
Have a nice weekend!

Thursday, November 10, 2005

Spreading The Love That Is God

In the few weeks since I created this blog, I have managed to accumulate a small volume of Christian 'Love Mail', not 'Hate Mail' mind you. I find it interesting that Christians go out of their way to appear nice and caring just before they tell you that you are going to go to Hell.

I thought I would take this opportunity to share a few snippets with you.

A reader (and I use that term with some doubt) Mike actually posted this comment in reply to an earlier post. Seems Mike must have gone a little 'ape shit' when he saw the word 'Atheist'. I give this to you with Mike's own spelling and grammar and his apparently stuck cap locks key.

MAN... WHAT A BORING LIFE YOU HAVE. TRYING WITH ALL OF YOU TO PROVE THAT SOMETHING DOES NOT EXIST. DON'T YOU FIND THAT PATHETIC? I MEAN, LIKE, ALL YOU DO IT'S ABOUT THAT THING THAT IS JUST NOT THERE LOL
If anyone understands what this means, please let me know.

NOT ONLY THAT, YOU ARE A SHITTY JERK WHO HAS A BRAIN TO WRITE CLEVER LINES, BUT LACKS ALL TYPE OF INTELLIGENCE.
Mike obviously has legal training. Beginning a sentence with 'not only that' was the give away. I may be a jerk, but I am no 'shitty ' jerk!

I AM A CHRISTIAN, BUT MAN, WE ARE PEOPLE FIRST, AND WE GET SO SICK OF LISTENING THE SAME CRAP FROM PEOPLE LIKE YOU ALL THE TIME, TOO.
I am sure you have just caused massive sphincter puckering with your declaration of your faith among the many reasonable Christian readers here.

I HOPE THAT BEFORE YOU DIE YOU REALIZE WHAT YOU'VE BEEN UP TO.
*BEFORE YOU DIE. LATER WILL BE JUST A LITTLE LATE.
MIKE
Ah, and what Christian 'Love Mail' would be complete without the obligatory, "You are going to Hell" remark. Mike cleverly avoids directly referring to the aforementioned place.

If you think that Mike is too easy a target for my sarcastic sharing of correspondence, then allow me to share a bit of an email from Shaun. Shaun is not an ignorant rube like Mike. He is evidently some sort of Christian rock star. But even he can't resist pointing out to me that 'one day' I will be up the proverbial 'shit creek' without a paddle and will have to find 'God'.

Life will kick you in the nads one day or something will happen to throw doubt
into your perspective on the world and you might find yourself then open to
another explanation of what holds the universe together and the for the
purpose of it all. Until then, I wish you the best.

I particularly like the fact that he wishes me the best until life kicks me in the nads. I guess that once my nads are kicked, he doesn't give a shit. Classy stuff Shaun. You can thank me that I didn't link this to your web site.

Until next time all, (Monday) play nice!

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Wednesday, November 09, 2005

IDiot Defenders Answer To Voters

I suppose this should go in the 'win some - lose some' column. The supporters of Intelligent Design on the Dover, PA school board were replaced by Democrats who do not support the teaching of religion in the science class. But in Kansas, the state school board voted 6-4 to include criticism of Evolution in its statewide curriculum. Of course, a win in Pennsylvania has a lot more weight than a loss in Kansas. I am sure the Kansas school board members are going to pay their price come election time. The full story is below.

Pennsylvania Voters Oust School Board

Voters came down hard Tuesday on school board members who backed a statement on intelligent design being read in biology class, ousting eight Republicans and replacing them with Democrats who want the concept stripped from the science curriculum.

The election unfolded amid a landmark federal trial involving the Dover public schools and the question of whether intelligent design promotes the Bible's view of creation. Eight Dover families sued, saying it violates the constitutional separation of church and state.

Dover's school board adopted a policy in October 2004 that requires ninth-graders to hear a prepared statement about intelligent design before learning about evolution in biology class.

Eight of the nine school board members were up for election Tuesday. They were challenged by a slate of Democrats who argued that science class was not the appropriate forum for teaching intelligent design.

"My kids believe in God. I believe in God. But I don't think it belongs in the science curriculum the way the school district is presenting it," said Jill Reiter, 41, a bank teller who joined a group of high school students waving signs supporting the challengers Tuesday.

A spokesman for the winning slate of candidates has said they wouldn't act hastily and would consider the outcome of the court case. The judge expects to rule by January; the new school board members will be sworn in Dec. 5.

School board member David Napierskie, who lost Tuesday, said the vote wasn't just about ideology.

"Some people felt intelligent design shouldn't be taught and others were concerned about having tax money spent on the lawsuit," he said.

Intelligent design holds that the universe is so complex that it must have been created by some kind of higher force. The statement read to students says Charles Darwin's theory is "not a fact" and has inexplicable "gaps."

A similar controversy has erupted in Kansas, where the state Board of Education on Tuesday approved science standards for public schools that cast doubt on the theory of evolution. The 6-4 vote was a victory for intelligent design advocates who helped draft the standards.

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Tuesday, November 08, 2005

Accidental Death and Christian Denial

Since posting a story on this site concerning the electrocution death of the Rev. Kyle Lake in Waco, TX, I have received more than a few replies via email and the site from believers. I don't have the time to reply to individual emails so I wanted to share some of the questions and thoughts that my recent correspondence with believers have raised.

If there is one underlying message that I am getting from believers it is this: Christians are in complete denial. Denial of what, you ask. Reality, I say, and their own religious dogma.

The whole point of my earlier post was that Christians love to credit 'God' with anything and everything. Sometimes the 'bad' Christians credit natural disasters like hurricanes to 'God' (note that 'God' completely failed to flood the French Quarter when she sent Katrina to punish New Orleans) but almost always the 'good' Christians will credit 'God' with anything even remotely positive in their lives.

I want to take a moment here to make a point, since from their replies I get the impression that most Christian visitors here don't bother to read entire posts.

I don't believe that 'God' killed Kyle Lake.

Kyle Lake died in a horrible, if not preventable accident under one of the most nightmarish and ironic scenarios ever reported. I am an atheist, remember? I don't blame something that I don't believe exists for accidents that happen. I don't blame 'God' for hurricanes, tornadoes, fires, car wrecks or floods. I also don't credit 'God' with the positive things that happen in my own life or in the lives of others due to the use of good judgment.

This brings us to ‘Free Will’. Over the past week many Christians have tried to explain to me that Kyle had 'free will' and that is why they don't blame 'God' for his death. This totally confuses me. Did Kyle make a choice using his 'free will' that was incorrect and that is why this accident happened? Or did 'God' know that Kyle was going to make this choice (hence, no free will) and she (God) chose to take Kyle via this horrible method? If you let 'God' off the hook for Kyle’s untimely death, then it seems to me that you should quit giving 'God' the credit when you use your 'free will' and something good comes from it.

I have also been told that everything operates within 'God's plan' and that she is in control. Then explain to me how, if this is 'God's plan', that she (God) is not responsible for killing Kyle in such a barbaric and horrible way? Don't you see? You can't have it both ways. Either 'God' knew this was going to happen and let it happen, or 'God' didn't have a thing to do with it. If some book or preacher trys to make this obvious contradiction make sense, please don't surrender your reason too quickly. Because trying to make sense of this tragedy in a 'God's great plan' world is just impossible.

Every day we (humans) make decisions based on reason, experience and using our own judgment. Sometimes these decisions result in tragedies like Kyle's death. Sometimes these decisions result in great success. It is your common sense, your reason and your intelligence that keeps you alive - that helps you to make the right decisions. Whether you get on your knees or say a silent prayer isn't going to make a difference. You are in control of your life, like it or not.

I can only imagine how miserable and confusing it must be to have to second guess every decision that you make wondering if it is 'God's will'. I can also only imagine how confusing it must be for believers to make sense of why 'God' chose to take Kyle in this horrible way. Why does 'God' take someone like Kyle and let someone like Pat Robertson or Jerry Falwell prosper? I am here to tell you that there is no confusion, no contradiction, and no reason to get on your knees and pray to the 'God' who let this happen.

Does this sound like evangelizing? Well, it is. Do I feel guilty using this accident to try to bring believers to reason? No, I do not. Christians have always targeted those in a time of weakness and crisis for conversion. If I can use this accident to point out the complete absurdity of your faith and hopefully free a few minds of the chains of religion, then I am willing to try.

I was once like many of you. I was a Southern Baptist. I have been in a baptismal pool. I've heard the words before the pastor put me under. I know how confusing it was to try to connect what my church told me with what I saw to be a completely different and contradictory real world. No horrible event like Kyle's death caused me to de-convert. It was a long and hard road to reason for me. I have been there and I can tell you that the world and life makes so much more sense when you stop believing in fairy tales. It is so much easier to really 'live your life' when you don't deny the obvious; that idea that is in the back of your mind as you think of Kyle's tragedy. There is no 'God'. If there were, then things like this would not happen.

Please don't reprimand me for making this point using Kyle's death. Not unless you are going to reprimand all of the believers who use tragedy, misfortune and death to try to convert others.

Finally I want to mention what I have learned about Kyle Lake in the last week.

From what I have learned, Kyle seems to have been a really nice person and did a lot of good in his short life. Being an atheist, I can give Kyle the credit for this and not feel obligated to credit 'God'. He made choices in his life (used his 'free will' for you Christians) which seem to have been well intentioned. I have learned that Kyle was not aligned with the conservatives of his denomination, Southern Baptists, but honestly I was unaware there were any non-conservative Southern Baptists. His efforts have obviously touched a lot of people and it is regrettable that the irony of his death has gained so much attention. I am truly sorry for the loss of this good person who was trying to make changes in his own life, church and denomination for the better.

Please reply here and not via email. I reserve the right to use any email replies on this site.

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Monday, November 07, 2005

Atheists Are Everywhere, Man. Atheists Are Everywhere

If you are not familiar with the Johnny Cash Song which inspired the title of this post, then you may want to give this a listen.

My wife and I just returned from an event in Pensacola, Florida related to our art business. On Friday, I was quite shocked and thrilled to learn that our 'neighbor' at this event was a long-time atheist. His name was Bob. Bob seemed equally excited about the prospect of having a 'like mind' to share thoughts, ideas and rants with for three days.


Of the many things I learned about Bob over the course of the weekend, I will share a few: Bob was a pioneering disc-jockey in the early days of rock and roll top 40 radio. He is a member of MENSA. He uses his razor sharp wit, sarcasm, sense of irony and humor to great effect while he spreads the word of reason and healthy doubt. He is married to his beautiful wife of 43 years and behaves as if he has just met her and is still in the process of wooing her (this is a good thing). Bob is also an accomplished artist in multiple disciplines. Bob is adding yet another degree to his already impressive collection; he still realizes there is more to learn. Bob is, in short, who I want to be when I am 73 years old.

Bob was indeed not the only atheist I met this weekend. No less than three others were within my immediate vicinity. And I must point out that I do not actively canvas my fellows at events to discover their beliefs. Bob and I discovered our shared lack of belief by complete coincidence. And I must further point out that I was in Pensacola, Florida. Pensacola is as full of Christians as any Bible Belt city in the south, perhaps more so due to the large christian school that is located there.

You may wonder why the fact that I met a few atheists on a business trip would warrant an entire blog entry. If you are an atheist in the South, you probably understand my enthusiastic reaction. If you are a believer, particularly a Christian in the United States, it is probably going to be impossible for me to come up with an analogy that could properly illustrate this excitement in discovery for you. But I will try.

Imagine that you live in country dominated by a superstitious belief (religion) that does not conform to your view of the 'real' world. Think of India, Pakistan, Saudi Arabia, Iraq, or Nepal. You would probably be very thrilled to accidentally meet another Christian in public or on business in one of these places. It is an uneasy feeling being surrounded by a sea of humanity whose beliefs are, if not just different, outright hostile to those that you hold. To find a fellow human being of like mind provides comfort, relief and an opportunity to converse without fear of offending or being harassed. Of course most of the countries I mentioned have Christian churches, schools or missionary organizations that you could seek out. We atheists, being an independent and free-thinking lot, do not have the benefit of these places.

Atheists are, in my opinion, are at the stage that gay and lesbian Americans were 20 or 30 years ago. We are just starting to make ourselves known. We are just coming out of the closet. The virtual world in which you are now visiting has certainly given strength, encouragement and support for those of us who simply believe in one less 'God' than most Americans. We are starting dialogues with those who agree with our world view and those who do not, but are curious and willing to listen and not judge.

So if you are a believer and you happen to hear someone in public mention that they are an atheist, don't gasp in horror or run the other way. Don't tell them that they are going to Hell. Talk to them. Ask them those questions that may trouble you about atheism (What DO you believe? How can you be happy without 'God'? Aren't you afraid to die and go to Hell?). You will probably find a willing and eager fellow human being ready to answer your questions and it might just be my new friend Bob.

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Thursday, November 03, 2005

Christians, Gather Your Nuts

In the short life of this blog, I have become very aware of something. The 'good' Christians love to apologize for the 'bad' Christians.

Whenever I post a complaint or criticism about religious nut-jobs or just the religious right in general, there are always moderate Christians eager to point out to me that these 'bad' Christians aren't truly representative of Christianity as a whole. If this is so, then I would certainly love to read and hear more from good and true Christians speaking out against your fellow 'bad' Christians. Or is that allowed? Can you only complain about them to atheists? Is that the rule? That would explain, I suppose, why I don't see a lot of you 'good' Christians confronting all the right-wing nut cases that are out there.

If you are going to try to tell me that you don't like the extremist any more then we atheists do or if you are going to say that they aren't following Jesus' teachings, then do me a favor. Go and tell the bad Christians rather than telling me. Something needs to be done and these people are (expletive)ing up your religion and my country.

See my post on Senator Danforth for an example of what I am suggesting.

No replies from me until Monday. Have fun, play nice.

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Wednesday, November 02, 2005

Teach Both Sides

Tuesday, November 01, 2005

Reason vs. Faith

Imagine for moment that you have been falsely accused of a crime - murder. You are completely innocent and before a jury with your life in the balance. Your defense attorney points out to the jury that there is not one shread of physical evidence against you. There are hundreds of witnesses who can swear that you were not near the victim at the time of the crime. There is a mountain of physical evidence to back up your defense. Yet 85% of your neighbors and townsfolk believe that you are guilty.


You see, you are not well liked. People enjoy telling lies about you. They say that you eat your babies. They say that you are evil. They say every horrible thing that their tiny closed minds can think of. When questioned in the local media, most say that no matter what evidence to the contrary is presented, they will still believe that you committed the crime. However, they are very proud of the fact they are willing to listen to the defense, even though they admit that their minds can not be moved from their current position. Their certainty of your guilt will only be more solid from listening to the arguments toward your innocence. By the way, your neighbors are actually nice people in most regards; they work, play, raise families, obey the laws, use their common sense. But when it comes to the subject of you, they are absolutely polarized and certain beyond question.

After your defense rests, the prosecuting attorney approaches the jury. He offers no evidence against you. He appeals purely to the emotions of the jury, reminding them of how good they will feel after they convict you. He reminds them that 85% of their neighbors believe that you are guilty. He repeats some of the baseless lies and rumors against you. He even promises the jury dream homes in exotic settings after they retire. The only 'evidence' he presents is a copy of Grimm’s Fairy Tales. He declares to the jury that every one of these stories is factually true and then attempts analogies from selected stories to incriminate you. He brings forward a token handful of 'experts' to refute the physical evidence of your innocence. These 'experts' declare that the hundreds who confirm your alibi are lying and cannot be trusted.

Final arguments finished, the jury retires to deliberate.

My question to you is this. Would you rather the jury be made up of people of

A: Faith (Belief that does not rest on logical proof or material evidence.)

or

B: Reason (An underlying fact or cause that provides logical sense for a premise or occurrence; The capacity for logical, rational, and analytic thought; intelligence; Good judgment; sound sense.)

Does this story out of ’The Twilight Zone' sound familiar to you? It should. It is the basis of religious belief and faith vs. reason and reality.

Believers are taught that stories from an ancient book are factually true. Characters in this book are presented as being real, though there is no evidence of their existence. They are asked to put aside their logic and reason in order to believe these things. Those who disagree are punished - at one time killed - but always maligned as being evil and corrupting. Some believers think they are open minded because they will listen to a logical and reasonable argument against this belief, but they will state up front that listening to this will only make their 'faith' stronger. Sorry, but that does not qualify as having an open mind.

Believers are told to ignore mountains of evidence about our history and the real world and to continue to believe in the fairy tales. After all, who doesn't want to hear '... and they lived happily ever after'? Believers are asked to put aside their physical senses, their common sense - the very things that keep us alive and safe each and every day. These things cannot be trusted, at least not when it comes to faith.

What do the faithful gain from this? The evidence says, not much. They suffer the same maladies as unbelievers; their marriages fail at a higher rate than unbelievers, their countries rate lower in quality of life. They may believe, for a time, that their fears of the unknown are quieted, that they are given a sense of 'peace' from their beliefs. But these things are only illusionary. They have the same fear and uncertainty as unbelievers. Any meaning in their lives is the result of their own efforts and not those of imaginary characters. Unbelievers achieve peace and happiness, meaning in their lives without having to sacrifice reason.

I am proud that I would have been the one hold-out Not Guilty vote on the fictional jury in the story above. I have never been prouder to be a person of reason - a faithless person.


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